donderdag 26 juni 2008

Truth

Women want somebody with command, with confidence. Someone who wouldn't take no for an answer. We want somebody arrogant and gorgeous with a terrifying sexual appetite and an amazing range of sexual technique. But when it comes right down to it, you know what? We'll settle for a man.

Just another quote, from Coupling this time. It kinda made me laugh because my friends and I are always talking about how sexy arrogance is. Yeah women want someone with confidence, someone arrogant, someone who looks great in a costume (or is that just my big turn-on?)and someone gorgeous... but when it comes right down to it, you just wanna be with the one that makes you smile, not that arrogant ass who pisses you off by being too mysterious. No endless list with things he has to be or has to do, just one capability: being able to make me smile. Let's say he can do more than that.

zondag 15 juni 2008

I couldn't help but wonder


'What if Prince Charming had never showed up? Would Snow White have slept in that glass coffin forever? Or would she have eventually woken up, spit out the apple, gotten a job, a health-care package, and a baby from her local neighbourhood sperm bank? I couldn't help but wonder: inside every confident, driven single woman, is there a fragile princess just waiting to be saved?' This quote has got me thinking for more than a month now. I just can't form an opinion about it. Sure, single women all over can rule the world on their own but is being happy alone better than being -most of the time- happy together? Are there more pro's to being single than more con's to being in a relationship? Is it a sign of weakness, wanting to be saved by the one person you wanna spend your life with or is putting your money on one horse overrated and just heart stupid? Couldn't figure it out then, can't figure it out now. So the point of this post is still to be found. In a time where I've seen a lot of couples breaking up, it seems that something is hitting me. While I've been struggling to be this strong girl, someone whose life doesn't depend on this one guy, I'm starting to think about how I wish it would. Not because I'm becoming this girly girl but just because I need the distraction, the hugs, the warmth, the love, maybe even just the weight of a guy laying on top of me. (Not really serious about that last one, or am I?) So what does this make me? A fragile princess waiting to be saved? A Snow White that sleeps in her coffin forever? At the moment I guess it does.